ATTENTION PROFESSIONALS! How can I get hair like this? (PLEASE read details-i'm desprate)?

I have very dark brown hair (almost black). Its somewhat healthy, highlighted just once. It feels silky most of the time, but after 3 days it feels so ew! How can I solve these problems?

1.How can I lighten my hair just a little so people know its dark brown, not black. Will sun in work?

2. How can I get my hair to look like this? (I know its been edited/prepared for, but I want my hair to look like it!)

http://www.pinkraindrops.com/images/hair...

smooth, silky, and shiny. So it looks like when people feel it, they KNOW it'll be super silky.

3. How can I make my hair feel silky, smooth and have mega shine?

4. How can I make my hair strong so it doesn't break as much

5. How can I make my hair move around ALOOOTTTTTTTT.

6. How can I make my hair feel naturally silky even if I don't have to wash in in like 4 days?

ATTENTION PROFESSIONALS! How can I get hair like this? (PLEASE read details-i'm desprate)?

I know ur desperate and i dont mean to be mean or mock u. But what u are asking for is what u probably saw in magazine (the picture) or on TV. Remember that all these celebrities have an haidressers 24/7 that they pay 2000USD a week!!!! So it might hard to get what u actually want, unless u can afford it. Otherwise go regularly to salon for ur hair care. And for dry ends, Almond Oil is the answer.

ATTENTION PROFESSIONALS! How can I get hair like this? (PLEASE read details-i'm desprate)?

go to the salon and get lots of repairing treatments